Words have Power-Choose them carefully.

Words have Power

-Choose them carefully.

‘Son of Blind is Blind’ (Andhey Ka Beta Andha)

Just four carelessly chosen words by Draupdi resulted in the mother of all wars:

Mahabhatra.

Legend has it that when an angry Duryodhan was speedily walking out of Palace of Illusion, he accidentally fell into a water body. (In palace of illusion water body looked like dry surface and dry surface looked like water body).

A furious Duryodhan turns around and sees Draupadi laughing at him. She said sarcastically “Andhe ka Beta Andha” (son of blind is blind)” as Duryodha was son of the blind king-Dhritrashtra. Duryodhan left in a rage and vowed to take revenge.

This led to Duryodhan to try to disrobe Draupdi when he had won her in a game of dice.

These are two major incidences which eventually led to the war between Pandvas and Kuarvas-

War of Mahabharta.

The words we use can result in motivating others, they can lead to irritating others and the words we use can also invite action. Hence, one must exercise special care in choosing words, because:

Do you know which words can invite action, which words can irritate, and which words can motivate? Given below are the words which can invite action, motivate others or even irritate others.

Words which invite action:

·         You, your

·         Money

·         Save

·         Guaranteed

·         Health

·         Safety

·         Love

·         Discover

·         Proven

·         New

·         Results

·         Benefit

·         Easy

·         Service

Words which Irritate

·         Understand?

·         Get the point?

·         See what I mean?

·         You don’t say.

·         Not really.

·         I, me, mine, my.

·         I’ll tell you what.

·         Old friend.

·         Hey Pal.

Words which Motivate

·         Will you help me?

·         I am sorry.

·         It was my fault.

·         Thank you.

·         I am proud of you.

·         Help me to understand this.

·         You are very kind.

·         I beg your pardon.

·         It has been real pleasure.

Words which Probe

·         What is your idea?

·         What do you think?

·         Can you give example

·         What was the situation?

·         How do you feel about this?

·         What happened then?

·         Could you please explain?

·         Why do you say so?

Which words are used by you more?

Be extremely careful to choose proper words and phrases so that the receiver of our words feels motivated to carry out the action desired by you. This is also the main purpose of our communication.

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